Do you know who you are?
Nothing you do ever seems enough, you try to be and do everything for him, for you, for the relationship, but you are missing out on the most important part.. Being and doing you.
You are losing connection with yourself by trying to become everything that you believe he wants you to be, so you forget who you are. You are so caught up in trying to making that relationship work, that you forget who your are, what is important to you and what you want from him and the relationship.
My love, if you want to be loved as you are, you need to know who that woman is, what she likes/doesn't likes, how she talks, thinks, acts, looks, smells and son on. Embrace her, and don't allow her to go ghost herself to please someone else above herself.
You are far too magical to settle, and that's what I think you are doing when you constantly fight for someone to see your worth.
Something we need to learn is that we are not all living on the same frequency, and when we meet someone on another frequency than our own, there's a clinch. I don't believe in stepping down to meet someone on a lower frequency. I believe in standing strong in my own and allow them to step up into it swell. Always strive to rise✨
I believe our relationships should make us grow positively stronger, not make us exhausted and feeling less worthy.
Have you experienced a relationship that drained you more than it gave you energy?
Ask yourself if you are being you when you are/were with this person?
I wish you a Tuesday as awesome as you
XoXo
Terese
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